You have been at war with yourself since you can remember. 

 

You have always been aware of a lingering feeling of dread somewhere in the darkness of your mind that has become an all too familiar companion. You don’t quite understand what it is, but its constant presence has been siphoning your energy and your attention, making you feel like nothing good will come to pass in your life. 

 

And so your life becomes a fractured attempt to escape yourself, whilst trying to create yourself. 

 

But nothing stops the war that wages within. 

 

Consciously you want what you want. The whisper that tells you there is more to life than what you’ve been told is possible for you. You want a successful business, no longer having to be a wage slave, an amazing relationship, plenty of money in the bank and of course a purpose that wakes you up everyday. You want to grow into the most authentic version of yourself possible and feel pride when you observe your reflection in the mirror. 

 

But nobody told you the pursuit for what you want comes with conflict. 

 

The conflict between what you consciously desire and the defiant unconscious (negative self)  that is always headed in the opposite direction. 

 

You are now a house divided against itself as you battle between going for what you want versus preserving your identity. 

 

The conflict feels like a death is occurring and you have to witness it every time you move away from who you think you are. 

 

The more you push for change, the more your unconscious (negative self) feels threatened. The thoughts get louder and the emotions more pronounced. The doubt and crippling fear stop forward momentum, dragging you back to who you think you are. 

 

You say you want to create  change in your life, but the force of the negative self is so strong, you don’t know how to defeat it and life continues on in the same way.

 

You are at war with yourself but you cannot see your opponent, nor can you predict its next move. 

 

The battle has you exhausted, scared and questioning whether you’ll ever change anything in your life. 

 

Someone will lose the battle. Who will it be?

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We have developed The Overcome Yourself process through years of trial and error, painstakingly combing through the detail of change and what it actually takes. 

 

This is the most detailed and nuanced process you will encounter that will assist you in overcoming who you think you currently are in order to get to who and where you want to be. 

 

The Overcome Yourself Outline - 

 

Positive Vision vs negative vision - Your focus determines the life you live. 

You think you are focused on a vision of what you want to create, but through some digging you will come to learn that your focus has been hijacked by your negative self in order to preserve your sense of self. Once your true focus is uncovered, you will set upon the path of creating a vision independent of who you think you are and your circumstances. 

 

The unconscious - You will do a detailed study of the programmes stored and running in your unconscious that determine who you are being. Awareness of the programmes is the first step in unarming the unconscious agenda so you can free your focus to create the vision you want. Without which you will continue being defeated by your negative self. 

 

Neutralisation - Perhaps the most important step that nobody talks about. Our inhouse method developed through necessity in order to overcome the onrush of thoughts and emotions that would ordinarily guarantee you have been defeated, again. 

Emotional Acceptance is a detailed process designed to overcome your thoughts and emotions that you cannot separate yourself from in real time. 

 

Refocus - Once you have neutralised the conflict in the moment, you will learn to consciously refocus your attention on the positive vision in order to continue the process.

 

Actions/Behaviours - Learn about the wisdom of action and how to determine what actions to take in order to create what you want. Actions are a true measure of whether or not change is actually happening in your life.